Dolores Park in the Spring:

A bunch of people have emailed, written and called to congratulate me on my engagement to Wendy, which is very nice. Weddding planning (such as it is) is going pretty slowly, starting with a sleepy conversation in the park about who we might invite, and how big a wedding might result. Baby steps.

Bard sent a link to a blog posting he thought would be helpful; I liked the first item in particular.